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...why do you assume a lot of women have traumatic birth experiences?I know some do , but there are plenty who don't .

This message was edited 4/10/2012, 2:49 PM

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Uh, where do you get the idea that I "assume a lot of women have traumatic birth experiences"? It just seemed like the obvious thing that could be another source of resentment, if something had happened around the birth where her husband had done something she didn't want.
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It's just because it's not the first time I've seen you bring it up. The link isn't as obvious to me, so I wondered. Hope I didn't offend you.

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It wasn't the first thing I thought of. It just occurred to me as a possibility after I did my lame picking apart thing. I wonder where else you've seen me bring it up when it was not already the topic. Not sure that has ever happened. Maybe you just have gotten the idea from "the sum of my posts" that I'm too opinionated about childbirth in general, which is possibly true. But despite that, I'm actually not sitting here going it was awful wasn't it! oh the terrible state of modern childbirth! in response to this. haha
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It was more the sum of your posts than one post/thread in particular, but I think I jumped to a conclusion here, and I shouldn't have. Just because you have strong opinions about something, that doesn't make you TOO opinionated.
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