In all fairness, if you look at it from the angle of what it's like to actually live with a name (which I think can sometimes be an easy angle for BtN-ers to overlook, even in regards to real life children), there's a HUGE difference between going through your life as a female Ashley
or going through life as a female James
. People may not like that names like Courtney
are girls names now, but that's how they are recognized and that's not going to change, regardless of their origin.