In all fairness, if you look at it from the angle of what it's like to actually live with a name (which I think can sometimes be an easy angle for BtN-ers to overlook, even in regards to real life children), there's a HUGE difference between going through your life as a female
Ashley or
Hadley or going through life as a female
James or
Frederick. People may not like that names like
Courtney and
Mackenzie are girls names now, but that's how they are recognized and that's not going to change, regardless of their origin.