I think of the TV show "Bewitched", as
Samantha and
Darrin's daughter was named
Tabitha. As such, I think of witches whenever I hear it... and stuck-up ones at that.
Aside from that association,
Tabitha just doesn't seem elegant enough for a feminine name, somehow. It sounds a little bit harsh, if you see what I mean.
"How do you pick up the threads of an old life? How do you go on... when in your heart you begin to understand... there is no going back? There are some things that time cannot mend... some hurts that go too deep... that have taken hold." ~
Frodo Baggins