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Re: Middle name ideas for Aaralyn and Lydia?
It's not lazy to not answer an OPTIONAL question. Just be happy she wasn't so "lazy" that she ignored your post completely.
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However YOU see it I suppose. (:
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I just thought you should be aware- you aren't gonna make too many friends here, and frankly, are bound to alienate yourself if you bug people about not replying to one aspect of a post you make, while they still made every effort to respond in some useful way. Keep it up and don't be surprised if less and less people answer your posts...
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Misunderstanding? I did say that I didn't mind that that person didn't give me a response I was looking for because I have plenty of other responses. I did mention that.
But to not give a proper response can be seen as being lazy regardless if you may think of my opinion as "negative" i'm not forcing anyone to give responses i'm looking for (I can't force or make them) but not doing so, I either see it as an act of laziness (not meaning to negative aspect) or yeah, they just don't feel like it. Free speech and allAll I said was "However YOU see it I suppose" and your response is something like "I have to tell you something. You aren't going to make too many friends on this site." OK...
I'm sorry that I made you upset somehow. My opinion on the matter\the topic was just different from yours! You people need to chill and stop making a big deal\fuss over these miniscule discussion and topics that don't matter at all.
This is a site for names. Not a soap opera
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I'm not upset. If you didn't mind, then why would you reply that "Still, it would be nice" and essentially "don't be lazy?" And you are probably not meaning to come off as negative.... But that's what I'm trying to say, you ARE, whether you intend to or not. It's really not that big of a deal either way, you can function under whatever reputation you want. I was only trying to warn you of it before it became a reputation that you didn't want- one where fewer people respond to you because of how you respond to them. You are certainly entitled to have an opinion that differs from mine and everyone else. Was only trying to help YOU from alienating yourself,which you seem to be doing a pretty good job of anyhow. I really want to like you but if you can't see that some of your posts come off as pestering, then I guess that's your prerogative. The only one making unnecessary fusses here is you

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