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Helpyup...As if I wish to stick around for the encore. you aren't going to like this and I could care less (:
in reply to a message by queenv
Um...I really love how everyone attacks me for my "wrong doings" and yet you guys are free to say whatever you damn please.
It's really obnoxious. Really, it is. I already appologized, just drop the conversation and move on. I even stated that lol! I mean I just love how people are so quick to gang up on me and take the other persons side due to one fact that the other individual has been a long time member of this site. "Let's gang up and treat the more newer member like garbage" Essentially that's what it feels like. You guys are free to express yourself however you feel-regardless of how rude or snotty it may be. God forbid if I were to do that...
The point is I already apologized and stated to move on from the conversation. So why do you wish to carry it on? You guys can have your fun, talking crap about me and how I am severely wrong with my side because apparently you guys must have nothing better to do. I'm not saying that I am fully right or always am right but the constant calling me out for every miniscule & irrelevant thing is incredibly obnoxious and snotty. If you think I'll stop expressing myself however I wish whenever I get called out, you are poorly mistaken. It only makes me do it again. If the call outs stop, I'll be more than happy to be a more pleasant person (:
Yes I am opinionated and defensive because I'm not a mat you can walk all over. I don't do nice when others are being rude.
It really is not my fault that the other user viewed the conversation as me "arguing" or even being "rude" all I was trying to say is that I don't view the name as offensive. What's with the 3rd degree???
Also, please don't tell me how to word things as though I'm a child. If I wish to end with "Byes" I can. To explain why I wrote that is very simple: I was done with the conversation (well now I am) and didn't wish to extend it. Honestly, why would I wish to carry on the conversation when its turning real sour?? Whatever I say, they're just going to take the wrong way.
The fact that you are apparently older than me by a significant amount. (1960 according to your page) and you wish to do this; extend the confrontation and join in with the petty argument actually makes me feel better about myself. Putting somebody down who is significantly younger than you are via internet or via reality and arguing with them is incredibly silly. And extremely sad on your part. You are well past that age where you should know better. But carry on however you wish (:
I feel bad for people who get these petty arguments in their posts that are unrelated and completely irrevelevent to their original question. Please explain to me and perhaps to the user who made this post how ANY of this has to do with the name "Dakota" (Sarcasm \Rhetorical FYI)
Goodbye. (Oh sorry, was my farewell somehow offensive?) :0
It's really obnoxious. Really, it is. I already appologized, just drop the conversation and move on. I even stated that lol! I mean I just love how people are so quick to gang up on me and take the other persons side due to one fact that the other individual has been a long time member of this site. "Let's gang up and treat the more newer member like garbage" Essentially that's what it feels like. You guys are free to express yourself however you feel-regardless of how rude or snotty it may be. God forbid if I were to do that...
The point is I already apologized and stated to move on from the conversation. So why do you wish to carry it on? You guys can have your fun, talking crap about me and how I am severely wrong with my side because apparently you guys must have nothing better to do. I'm not saying that I am fully right or always am right but the constant calling me out for every miniscule & irrelevant thing is incredibly obnoxious and snotty. If you think I'll stop expressing myself however I wish whenever I get called out, you are poorly mistaken. It only makes me do it again. If the call outs stop, I'll be more than happy to be a more pleasant person (:
Yes I am opinionated and defensive because I'm not a mat you can walk all over. I don't do nice when others are being rude.
It really is not my fault that the other user viewed the conversation as me "arguing" or even being "rude" all I was trying to say is that I don't view the name as offensive. What's with the 3rd degree???
Also, please don't tell me how to word things as though I'm a child. If I wish to end with "Byes" I can. To explain why I wrote that is very simple: I was done with the conversation (well now I am) and didn't wish to extend it. Honestly, why would I wish to carry on the conversation when its turning real sour?? Whatever I say, they're just going to take the wrong way.
The fact that you are apparently older than me by a significant amount. (1960 according to your page) and you wish to do this; extend the confrontation and join in with the petty argument actually makes me feel better about myself. Putting somebody down who is significantly younger than you are via internet or via reality and arguing with them is incredibly silly. And extremely sad on your part. You are well past that age where you should know better. But carry on however you wish (:
I feel bad for people who get these petty arguments in their posts that are unrelated and completely irrevelevent to their original question. Please explain to me and perhaps to the user who made this post how ANY of this has to do with the name "Dakota" (Sarcasm \Rhetorical FYI)
Goodbye. (Oh sorry, was my farewell somehow offensive?) :0
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The trouble is
Every time you could do with changing your attitude, you just change your posting name instead, and you think we're all too stupid to notice. You are as aware of your attitude as everyone else is and unless you change it, you will continue to get pulled up on it, no matter how many times you change your username.
You started the conversation (as you do most, if not all, of the time) so you should damn well be able to handle the response, especially one so simple and inoffensive as mine in this thread, instead of petulantly cutting the other person off with a "goodbye", or whatever term you choose to employ.
You're not ganged up on, firstly, at all, and, secondly, certainly not because you're new here (you aren't). People pull you up because you're damn rude and always have been on these boards.
Every time you could do with changing your attitude, you just change your posting name instead, and you think we're all too stupid to notice. You are as aware of your attitude as everyone else is and unless you change it, you will continue to get pulled up on it, no matter how many times you change your username.
You started the conversation (as you do most, if not all, of the time) so you should damn well be able to handle the response, especially one so simple and inoffensive as mine in this thread, instead of petulantly cutting the other person off with a "goodbye", or whatever term you choose to employ.
You're not ganged up on, firstly, at all, and, secondly, certainly not because you're new here (you aren't). People pull you up because you're damn rude and always have been on these boards.
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You won't like this either
Our relative ages have nothing to do with it. I would say the same thing to someone my age or older. Yet you seem to believe that because I am significantly older than you are, somehow that means I lose the right to advise you on a breach of etiquette, that it automatically makes it "silly" and "sad" and I should "know better."
You know what that is? It's rank ageism at its worst. "Go back to your knitting, Grandma, you can't talk to us young people." Isn't it "sad" and "silly" when old people in their dotage who have lost all of their marbles try to argue with the young folk? Doesn't it feel good, doesn't it make you feel better about yourself, when you can shrug off what they say because what they say doesn't matter, because they're old and you're young? Doesn't it make you feel better about yourself that in all likelihood the older person is closer to the grave than you are?
Oh, maybe I shouldn't have put my birth year on my profile page. Maybe I should not have wanted it to be possible for anyone to find out how old I am, especially given the fact that I know that the vast majority here are a lot younger than I am. But I guess I had this silly idea that it doesn't matter, that as long as another person has reached the age of adulthood we can talk like equals.
I treated you like an equal but that wasn't good enough for you. You had to make a pathetic attempt to be my superior.
You being a "newcomer" has nothing to do with it, either, even if you were a newcomer. I'd say the same to a long-time regular. But you're not even the "newcomer" you claim to be. The fact is you've been here a long while. You've changed your posting name four times.
Yes, you have the right to word your posts however you like, but if you keep wording them in snotty condescending ways, after you've been warned, the owner of this site has the right to kick your ass to the curb and I hope he does. Before your latest post, I wouldn't have wished this, as I considered you nothing more than annoying, but your age-related prejudice has opened my eyes to the kind of person you really are and it goes beyond just annoying.
Our relative ages have nothing to do with it. I would say the same thing to someone my age or older. Yet you seem to believe that because I am significantly older than you are, somehow that means I lose the right to advise you on a breach of etiquette, that it automatically makes it "silly" and "sad" and I should "know better."
You know what that is? It's rank ageism at its worst. "Go back to your knitting, Grandma, you can't talk to us young people." Isn't it "sad" and "silly" when old people in their dotage who have lost all of their marbles try to argue with the young folk? Doesn't it feel good, doesn't it make you feel better about yourself, when you can shrug off what they say because what they say doesn't matter, because they're old and you're young? Doesn't it make you feel better about yourself that in all likelihood the older person is closer to the grave than you are?
Oh, maybe I shouldn't have put my birth year on my profile page. Maybe I should not have wanted it to be possible for anyone to find out how old I am, especially given the fact that I know that the vast majority here are a lot younger than I am. But I guess I had this silly idea that it doesn't matter, that as long as another person has reached the age of adulthood we can talk like equals.
I treated you like an equal but that wasn't good enough for you. You had to make a pathetic attempt to be my superior.
You being a "newcomer" has nothing to do with it, either, even if you were a newcomer. I'd say the same to a long-time regular. But you're not even the "newcomer" you claim to be. The fact is you've been here a long while. You've changed your posting name four times.
Yes, you have the right to word your posts however you like, but if you keep wording them in snotty condescending ways, after you've been warned, the owner of this site has the right to kick your ass to the curb and I hope he does. Before your latest post, I wouldn't have wished this, as I considered you nothing more than annoying, but your age-related prejudice has opened my eyes to the kind of person you really are and it goes beyond just annoying.
This message was edited 8/23/2015, 11:09 PM
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