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I think it's nice to make the connection, as long as you genuinely like the name. I wouldn't use a name I hated no much I loved the person! I'd also be hesitant to use a name from someone who had a terrible life, or did something really bad.

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"We have to live without sympathy, don't we? That's impossible of course. We act it to one another, all this hardness; but we aren't like that really, I mean...one can't be out in the cold all the time; one has to come in from the cold...d'you see what I mean?”
John LeCarré