When are you going out -- tonight? Yikes! Get thee to a bookstore and pick up *The Satanic Witch* by Anton Szandor LaVey. Read the chapter titled "E.S.P.: Extra Sensory Projection" and, in the chapter titled "Bitchcraft", read the section titled "Learn to be Stupid".
Other than that, just be your charming self, SJ. He'd be a fool not to fall in love with you. :)