Adopting
What is your guys opinon on adopting? We plan on adopting from China or Japan or even one from both. Would you keep their birth name as their first name or Give them an american first name and use their birth name as the middle name or give them a complete 100% american name?Thanks,
Sare and Jacko
vote up1vote down

Replies

Maybe you could keep the original first name and give them an American middle name?Elle
vote up1vote down
Use their birth name as a middle name and give them an American first name.
vote up1vote down
I think that adopting and having children is the same thing,so i would give my children the names i like.that's only what i think.anyways i like japanese names a lot.
good luck!
vote up1vote down
I think the nameing should depend on the age of the child. If they already know themselves by their chinese name then keep it. But if you can't pronnounce their name maybe you should change it. Just a train of thought.
vote up1vote down
I would give them an American first name, and either their given birth name or a name pertaining to their culture as their middle name.For example..My friend adopted a girl from another country, and named her Alissa Kaiete--a family name from where she came from
vote up1vote down
I'm Chinese but my family migrated to America ages ago. So when I was born, my parents gave me a chinese name that sounded a teeny weeny little bit American. Some people call me Lynn. So I suggest you give him/her an american middle name and make his/her chinese one his/her first name. or, if they like you can just give them an american name and don't call them by their Chinese name or just do the opposite.Regards,
Li Lynnps: I suggest you don't adopt two chinese and japenese children. chinese and japenese aren't really at excellent terms with each other...
vote up1vote down
Depending on the age of the child, I would say either make their given name their middle name and give them an American first name. But, if they are an older child, then I would say keep their name as it is. It all depends.
vote up1vote down
I would keep their first name or possibly make it there middle name so that they know where their ethnicity lies.
vote up1vote down