There was no offense meant by my caveat regarding possible multiple identities and I hope none was taken. I think Miranda's note just prior to this post explains why I raised a concern (thank you, Miranda).
The group research situation you outline is quite understandable and I'm sure no one here has a quarrel with it. You apparently explained the situation on this board previously but I've been absent from here for about 18 months what with working away from home and various health issues. Other than that hiatus, I've been a regular on BtN since 1999 and, believe me, we've seen some weird goings-on among our visitors that now tend to make one cautious at times.
As a father and (maybe soon) grandfather, I was quite concerned to hear that your baby is so ill. We'll keep your family and especially Trinity in our thoughts and pray for a good outcome.