i am not taking the "moral high ground" -- i simply find her language offensive, including the "eat me" comment. she only agreed to keep vulgarity from the subject headers -- not from the text of her posts.
i find her posts in general offensive as well, but i never responded to them. (e.g., the repetitive white trash, stripper, stupid, ad nauseum). although i think the civility of the board has been eroded, in large part due to her posts.
i only posted to Mike when she began cursing. the board is usually devoid of that behavior. and i agree, those who curse at her in return are no better.