Hmmm... didn't know the Kolatch was crap, LOL! And yes I like Tabitha rather than Tavita. Tavita is my grandmother's nickname. Her full name is Haydée Octavie Teresa (she is Belgian), so the love for Tavita come from Octavie, actually, but being it that Tavita (spelled like this) is not a registered name, I went and made up a good excuse for myself so that I can like it, spelled Tavita and defend it as a real name...LOL!
Ps.: About that Carmelites e-mail, I am working on it, but I was thinking, since you said you speak latin, wouldn't ti be easier to send it in Latin? I am quite sure the Carmelites speak Latin as well.