lol yeah no kidding, nothing like going on teevee and letting the world know your a slut!! LOL I dont know how popular Joe will get but I think that if you like the name then go for it. But I personally like Nathan or Aaron . Joel is just so I dont know... I have met some boring people named Joel . But it is up to you and your wife. But I also think you two want to name your son Joesph. So go for it!