I am a widow of 2 yrs and am 34 yrs old. I have 3 kids and have met another widow who I think I will eventually marry. One, of many issues, is what my children's last name will become. I can't imagine them growing up (currently ages 6-girl,5-boy & 2-girl yrs)with a different name then me, yet I understand the importance of keeping their father's last name. Please share your thoughts with me :) Thanks.