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Subject: Re: Ask a question
Author: Parfaitcheri   (Authenticated as sarinvae)
Date: January 28, 2013 at 10:17:40 AM
Reply to: Re: Ask a question by Ajay
It would depend with me for the male situation. I have plenty of straight male friends who I don't mind touching physically but I also know that they value me as a person, so I would feel no less comfortable with them than I would a gay man. But then there are some of the boys in my group who clearly exhibit sexist tendencies and view me less like a person and more like a sexual object. In those cases I would be more comfortable with a homosexual man simply because I'd be more comfortable with just about anybody but them touching me. So I guess for me the sexuality of the man doesn't matter, its how he treats me, and since gay men are less inclined to want to have sex with me, they're more comfortable to touch.

And I wouldn't mind at all for my husband and a lesbian. Its funny because in my family, an aunt related by marriage is gay and my mom's best friend is gay and my stepdad absolutely loves both of them. My mom's friends always ask if she isn't worried he'll do something but she just laughs cause both those women are gay so nothing ever would.

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