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HelpRe: The name my husband always wanted vs. My Dream
in reply to a message by LV51sfan91
You don't need to have just ONE middle name. If Dawn and Lillian and Brooklyn are all important, then I'd consider Brooklyn Lillian Dawn. Provided of course that you husband likes Brooklyn as a first name.
I wouldn't ignore his wishes to honour his mother as it wouldn't be right for him to ignore you wanting to honour your mother. Are there variants he'd consider? Maybe like Liliana "Liana" / "Lia"? That's not as far off as Elizabeth. That is of course if you like "Lia" / "Liana" better than Lilly, otherwise it doesn't solve anything :P
If Brooklyn is a name you already agree on, it's easier to decide on this.
Keep in mind that in your dream you may have heard Brooklyn, bc it was already on your mind. I wouldn't force that down his throat if he doesn't want to. I also think he can't force Lillian as a first name down your throat either. As a middle name is would be a different story.
I wouldn't ignore his wishes to honour his mother as it wouldn't be right for him to ignore you wanting to honour your mother. Are there variants he'd consider? Maybe like Liliana "Liana" / "Lia"? That's not as far off as Elizabeth. That is of course if you like "Lia" / "Liana" better than Lilly, otherwise it doesn't solve anything :P
If Brooklyn is a name you already agree on, it's easier to decide on this.
Keep in mind that in your dream you may have heard Brooklyn, bc it was already on your mind. I wouldn't force that down his throat if he doesn't want to. I also think he can't force Lillian as a first name down your throat either. As a middle name is would be a different story.
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