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I really like the name Rowan for a girl lately. WDYT?
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I think it's unisex, but nmsaa...
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I absolutely love Rowan on either gender.
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I love it!
I love this name on a girl, and I also love Rohan on a boy.
I love this name on a girl, and I also love Rohan on a boy.
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I don't like it. It's a male name to me.
For one, it ends in -an, like Ryan, Aidan, Caden, Hayden, and other popular masculine names of our times.
For another, one of our tenants had a little boy named Rowan, about Jeannie's age, with whom she played with until his family moved out early this year.
And thirdly, I think girls have enough botantical names. Let's give Rowan and Ash, at least, to the boys and leave Willow and Hazel to the girls.
I do like Rowan for a boy. Rowena or Rowana (roh-AN-ah) for a girl is good to me.
Miranda
For one, it ends in -an, like Ryan, Aidan, Caden, Hayden, and other popular masculine names of our times.
For another, one of our tenants had a little boy named Rowan, about Jeannie's age, with whom she played with until his family moved out early this year.
And thirdly, I think girls have enough botantical names. Let's give Rowan and Ash, at least, to the boys and leave Willow and Hazel to the girls.
I do like Rowan for a boy. Rowena or Rowana (roh-AN-ah) for a girl is good to me.
Miranda
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Love it.
I love it most for a girl, but also thinks it works wonderfully on a boy.
With a good, classic mn, it goes well for either sex.
I love it most for a girl, but also thinks it works wonderfully on a boy.
With a good, classic mn, it goes well for either sex.
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Like it.
I've only known Rowan as a girl name, probably due to a series of books I read in high school where the lead female character was Rowan.
Also, I've always associated it with the tree and therefore it resides in the "growing plant/nature/flower=girl" catagory in my mind. Like Willow, Magnolia, Cherry, Ivy, {insert flower name of choice}, Meadow, etc.
Rowena has a TOTALLY different sound and feel. Mostly icky.
I've only known Rowan as a girl name, probably due to a series of books I read in high school where the lead female character was Rowan.
Also, I've always associated it with the tree and therefore it resides in the "growing plant/nature/flower=girl" catagory in my mind. Like Willow, Magnolia, Cherry, Ivy, {insert flower name of choice}, Meadow, etc.
Rowena has a TOTALLY different sound and feel. Mostly icky.
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I love the name Rowan but only for a boy.
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As always, I prefer this one for a boy only. Rowan (for a boy) is a semi-favorite of mine.
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Everyone likes Rowan for a girl lately, unfortunately. I love it only for a boy- but I'm not sure I'll use it if it's becoming unisex. I'm into gender distinctions- that's just my personal taste, so don't bash me! :)
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Rowan is quite masculine to me. . .
I suppose conventionally the modern name is unisex (people will be unsure what sex Rowan is), when you assume the "rowan tree" meaning, but I think of the "little red" meaning as being more masculine. The -an diminutive names seem to be originally boy names, although I'm not sure - at any rate, they still immediately indicate males to me today, and I feel some dissonance when I see Ryan and Rowan on girls.
I have neglected the name Rowan (on my boys list) lately for the same reason as you, as well as the fact that I found out it's trendy. I still like it very much as a gentle, earthy, masculine name. If I had a kid and loved the name enough, I'd use it for a boy anyway.. it has been masculine, will never be totally feminine, so the unisex usage wouldn't stop me, if I was that crazy about it. I don't think it should stop anyone.
I'm into gender distinctions for the most part also, but it's really about convention for me. And conventions change, so I have to change my definitions of what names indicate gender depending on how people around me are named.
BtN has Rowan listed as unisex, and I have grudgingly accepted that at face value -- until today, that is, when I noticed that Ryan had been changed to unisex! I know it reflects current usage, but the site is supposed to be at least somewhat about overall history, and at least the entry should indicate that the name has been (probably close to completely) male until extremely recently. To list this name as unisex without qualification is just misleading.
So now I have my doubts about trusting that Rowan is really unisex too. It's a boy's name, gosh durnit! :-P
At any rate, most usage of the name Rowan, as far as I know, is almost entirely within the last sixty or seventy years - so it's not like you have this huge historical precedent for it being male; but there is a significant precedent.
I suppose conventionally the modern name is unisex (people will be unsure what sex Rowan is), when you assume the "rowan tree" meaning, but I think of the "little red" meaning as being more masculine. The -an diminutive names seem to be originally boy names, although I'm not sure - at any rate, they still immediately indicate males to me today, and I feel some dissonance when I see Ryan and Rowan on girls.
I have neglected the name Rowan (on my boys list) lately for the same reason as you, as well as the fact that I found out it's trendy. I still like it very much as a gentle, earthy, masculine name. If I had a kid and loved the name enough, I'd use it for a boy anyway.. it has been masculine, will never be totally feminine, so the unisex usage wouldn't stop me, if I was that crazy about it. I don't think it should stop anyone.
I'm into gender distinctions for the most part also, but it's really about convention for me. And conventions change, so I have to change my definitions of what names indicate gender depending on how people around me are named.
BtN has Rowan listed as unisex, and I have grudgingly accepted that at face value -- until today, that is, when I noticed that Ryan had been changed to unisex! I know it reflects current usage, but the site is supposed to be at least somewhat about overall history, and at least the entry should indicate that the name has been (probably close to completely) male until extremely recently. To list this name as unisex without qualification is just misleading.
So now I have my doubts about trusting that Rowan is really unisex too. It's a boy's name, gosh durnit! :-P
At any rate, most usage of the name Rowan, as far as I know, is almost entirely within the last sixty or seventy years - so it's not like you have this huge historical precedent for it being male; but there is a significant precedent.
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Unisex names
For me, Kelly is a boy's name and Rowan is a girl's name.
But I'm sure that's because the first Kelly I knew was a boy (my brother) and the first Rowan I knew was a girl (my friend's neice).
I liked the idea of boy's names for girls until it became so trendy. Now it's just confusing. Unfortunately I think we all need to accept the fact that most names are now available to either sexes. Just like most ethnic names are now available to all ethnicities. Anything seems to go. That's probably why the recent trend is now more towards common, gender-defining classic names. Go figure.
For me, Kelly is a boy's name and Rowan is a girl's name.
But I'm sure that's because the first Kelly I knew was a boy (my brother) and the first Rowan I knew was a girl (my friend's neice).
I liked the idea of boy's names for girls until it became so trendy. Now it's just confusing. Unfortunately I think we all need to accept the fact that most names are now available to either sexes. Just like most ethnic names are now available to all ethnicities. Anything seems to go. That's probably why the recent trend is now more towards common, gender-defining classic names. Go figure.
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I agree with one thing, and disagree with another:
I agree strongly that it's convention and actual usage that determines a name's gender or whether it indicates gender at all; your reaction to Kelly and Rowan from personal experience is a good example. Kelly and Rowan are now essentially unisex, because the widely accepted convention that they indicate gender is not there. I will accept whatever is conventional; the problem I have is with conventions changing -- it's not just that I am conservative, but because, as you say, it's confusing, among other things. It's not an absolute negative in the end, but during the time of changes -- like now with Rowan, Ryan, Rory -- it's less than good.
I disagree that we all need to accept that most names are now available to both sexes. All names are always theoretically available to all people. It is only the actual real life usage of traditionally male names on females that changes the convention. But there will always be some names for which the convention is, they indicate a male or a female. It's a useful, polite convention, it can give a certain social ease. People value sex and gender as part of identity. That's not going to change. Those who use unisex names don't value it enough to use names that can indicate it, but that doesn't mean that name genders are all now in fact meaningless.
I don't think it really compares exactly with ethnicity - because although one's ethnicity can be blurred by mixed ancestry and geographical history, one's sex cannot be blurred.. only one's gender. That's not a bad thing in itself, except when it's only acceptable to "add" masculine to feminine, but not to "adulterate" masculine with feminine -- which seems to be the trend.
- chazda
I agree strongly that it's convention and actual usage that determines a name's gender or whether it indicates gender at all; your reaction to Kelly and Rowan from personal experience is a good example. Kelly and Rowan are now essentially unisex, because the widely accepted convention that they indicate gender is not there. I will accept whatever is conventional; the problem I have is with conventions changing -- it's not just that I am conservative, but because, as you say, it's confusing, among other things. It's not an absolute negative in the end, but during the time of changes -- like now with Rowan, Ryan, Rory -- it's less than good.
I disagree that we all need to accept that most names are now available to both sexes. All names are always theoretically available to all people. It is only the actual real life usage of traditionally male names on females that changes the convention. But there will always be some names for which the convention is, they indicate a male or a female. It's a useful, polite convention, it can give a certain social ease. People value sex and gender as part of identity. That's not going to change. Those who use unisex names don't value it enough to use names that can indicate it, but that doesn't mean that name genders are all now in fact meaningless.
I don't think it really compares exactly with ethnicity - because although one's ethnicity can be blurred by mixed ancestry and geographical history, one's sex cannot be blurred.. only one's gender. That's not a bad thing in itself, except when it's only acceptable to "add" masculine to feminine, but not to "adulterate" masculine with feminine -- which seems to be the trend.
- chazda
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Point taken.
J.
J.
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