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I sorta feel the same way about people you actually know personally. Don't honour until they are dead and it's safe to be nostalgic about them. Or if you already know all their "bad points" and you're comfy with them.

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I've had friends and even family members who I once adored and would have honoured in an instant at the time I was close to them, but living people have a super annoying tendency to grow and change, and not always in a way I might enjoy.

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Is that a gross sentiment? I feel a bit bad for admitting it but I'm also low on impulse control today and I'm oversharing.