"I'd like to address the issue of percieved rudeness on the boards. Personally, I agree that some people on these boards can be blunt. I also think some people can be very fluffy in their comments and offer no more than a yes or no opinion on a name as well. Personally, I would prefer the latter rather than the former. "
this means that you want people to just give yes or no answers. how about instead of just telling someone how horrible name is give them a good reason and give them some other ideas. instead of just making them feel like the stuidest creature that ever walked the earth