LOL no sympathy is needed. Luckly I did turn out fine. My mothers name is Sharon Adelle Schultz...is her current husbands name but I think maybe you should use he madien name cause she just kicked him out. So it is Sharon Adelle Fallness. Thanks Nan. I am sure my mother will like it. My dad choose that VergilOmar ??. I cant remember what the rest was!