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I agree completely with the Missy/Melissa thing. Although my friends christened me "Mel" five years ago. I spent an entire year resisting, insisting I was *not* Mel, during which they called me "Not Mel".I gave up. It stuck. So it goes.
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My niece, Melanie, also fought and lost on the "Mel" tag. Over the years, we've all learned to live with it. Oh course, my sister, Alison, has been "Al" for over thirty years with no apparent negative impacts on her feminine image.
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