I think it strikes me as a sweet middle name partially because it's that of my cousin,
Jenny Meade. I believe it's a family name from her mother's (my aunt through marriage) side. But I do like it for aesthetic purposes as well; it's interesting, sweet, and subtle, IMO. I think it would make a very nice middle name, particularly alongside your daughter's name. :-)
Would you every consider
Meade for a boy? It is unisex, after all.