people will get judged by their names even if it's unfair to(m)
Of course it would be wrong to judge a doctor or a lawyer just by their name, and no one is going to be actually entirely prevented from getting a good job just because their name. it's just that to a lot of people a trashy or weird 's going to make a bad impression. It'sl like with clothes, of course it's unfair to judge people by how they dress, but if you go for a job interview in a bank wearing torn jeans and lots of piercings, you're very unlikely to get the job no matter how great your credentials are (or if by miracle you do, you're going to get asked to change your look). As for working-class people not worrying about how the name sounds professionally, this is rather unfortunate, because it means they can't really imagine that their child might get an education and progress socially (whereas presumably most middle-class people think their kids are all go to college and have white collar jobs as a matter of fact, no matter how silly they may turn out to be). Ok, A Precious Diamond is better than Cobra, but only marginally so. In my own culture neither would be allowed anyway.
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Random BA's  ·  Sabrina Fair  ·  8/2/2007, 1:43 PM
I like/love*:  ·  Magenta  ·  8/2/2007, 11:31 PM
Re: Random BA's  ·  Saana  ·  8/2/2007, 9:53 PM
Re: Random BA's  ·  mum2bubba  ·  8/2/2007, 7:55 PM
Re: Random BA's  ·  07Grad  ·  8/2/2007, 7:49 PM
my view  ·  brydz  ·  8/2/2007, 6:28 PM
Re: Random BA's  ·  *Brogan*  ·  8/2/2007, 6:01 PM
I like  ·  Wintertale  ·  8/2/2007, 5:41 PM
Well we can all agree on one thing  ·  Miles  ·  8/2/2007, 5:18 PM
Re: Well we can all agree on one thing  ·  Kate  ·  8/2/2007, 5:23 PM
Re: Well we can all agree on one thing  ·  Caitlin  ·  8/2/2007, 5:23 PM
A Precious Diamond is...  ·  Brianna  ·  8/2/2007, 5:16 PM
Re: A Precious Diamond is...  ·  Caitlin  ·  8/2/2007, 5:29 PM
actually her FN is A Precious, her MN id Diamond n/t  ·  Sabrina Fair  ·  8/2/2007, 5:53 PM
Re: How do you know that just from the silly growingfamily.com site? nt  ·  Sabrina Fair  ·  8/2/2007, 7:25 PM
you'd be suprised what people name their children, lol n/t  ·  Sabrina Fair  ·  8/2/2007, 8:16 PM
Why do people do this?  ·  MizLaura  ·  8/2/2007, 4:12 PM
Re: Why do people do this?  ·  Kate  ·  8/2/2007, 4:30 PM
Re: Why do people do this?  ·  MizLaura  ·  8/2/2007, 4:36 PM
Re: Why do people do this?  ·  Array  ·  8/2/2007, 4:47 PM
Mmm...Yummy! I love Gael Garcia Bernal! (nt)  ·  LMS  ·  8/3/2007, 12:07 PM
Re: Why do people do this?  ·  Kate  ·  8/2/2007, 5:25 PM
And as we know, all baby name books are correct /eyeroll (nt)  ·  Isla  ·  8/2/2007, 4:46 PM
Re: And as we know, all baby name books are correct /eyeroll (nt)  ·  MizLaura  ·  8/2/2007, 4:49 PM
Re: And as we know, all baby name books are correct /eyeroll (nt)  ·  Caitlin  ·  8/2/2007, 5:12 PM
The major difference between this site and baby name books...(m)  ·  Caitlín Malia  ·  8/2/2007, 5:58 PM
Re: The major difference between this site and baby name books...(m)  ·  Sabrina Fair  ·  8/2/2007, 6:30 PM
lol! too true [nt]  ·  Caitlín Malia  ·  8/2/2007, 9:59 PM
Re: The major difference between this site and baby name books...(m)  ·  Sabrina Fair  ·  8/2/2007, 8:19 PM
Re: Why do people do this?  ·  Caitlin  ·  8/2/2007, 4:46 PM
Re: Why do people do this?  ·  Kate  ·  8/2/2007, 4:44 PM
I actually like a lot of these...  ·  Georgia  ·  8/2/2007, 2:54 PM
they are getting trashier and trashier  ·  RoxStar  ·  8/2/2007, 2:25 PM
rofl at Arden Harry nt  ·  mirfak  ·  8/2/2007, 7:31 PM
This made me laugh. Thank you. (nt)  ·  MizLaura  ·  8/2/2007, 4:15 PM
Amporn  ·  Eilis  ·  8/2/2007, 3:45 PM
wow. why so angry? nt  ·  RJ  ·  8/2/2007, 3:28 PM
Re: they are getting trashier and trashier  ·  Cleveland Kent Evans  ·  8/2/2007, 3:13 PM
Re: they are getting trashier and trashier  ·  Precious Dymond  ·  8/5/2007, 5:55 PM
I would like to offer a ditto, if you please. n/t  ·  Array  ·  8/2/2007, 5:01 PM
I didn't look at her picture (m)  ·  RoxStar  ·  8/2/2007, 4:09 PM
Re: I didn't look at her picture (m)  ·  Cleveland Kent Evans  ·  8/2/2007, 4:33 PM
I'm very glad I don't live in China (m)  ·  RoxStar  ·  8/2/2007, 4:42 PM
Have we forgotten that it's an opinions board?  ·  Adelle  ·  8/2/2007, 4:40 PM
Thank goodness someone finally said it! (nt)  ·  LMS  ·  8/3/2007, 12:12 PM
Amen (nt)  ·  Isla  ·  8/2/2007, 4:45 PM
More power to you Adelle (nt)  ·  Miles  ·  8/2/2007, 4:43 PM
I agree n/t  ·  Kate  ·  8/2/2007, 4:31 PM
I agree completely(nt)  ·  Miles  ·  8/2/2007, 4:17 PM
I agree. It's not racist. (nt)  ·  MizLaura  ·  8/2/2007, 4:16 PM
Re: Random BA's  ·  Ariel  ·  8/2/2007, 1:56 PM
A Precious Diamond?  ·  Miles  ·  8/2/2007, 1:49 PM
What will they call her? A? Ape D? (nt)  ·  Isla  ·  8/2/2007, 4:38 PM
Re: A Precious Diamond?  ·  Cleveland Kent Evans  ·  8/2/2007, 3:08 PM
yes but it's horribly cutesy(m)  ·  lady murasaki  ·  8/2/2007, 3:44 PM
Re: yes but it's horribly cutesy(m)  ·  Cleveland Kent Evans  ·  8/2/2007, 4:25 PM
I'd actually concur with this  ·  Eliora  ·  8/2/2007, 7:55 PM
Re: yes but it's horribly cutesy(m)  ·  RoxStar  ·  8/2/2007, 4:48 PM
Re: yes but it's horribly cutesy(m)  ·  Caitlin  ·  8/2/2007, 5:37 PM
people will get judged by their names even if it's unfair to(m)  ·  lady murasaki  ·  8/3/2007, 12:52 AM
Re: Lewis Libby +  ·  mirfak  ·  8/2/2007, 7:43 PM
I agree n/t  ·  Kate  ·  8/2/2007, 3:55 PM
Re: A Precious Diamond?  ·  Miles  ·  8/2/2007, 3:31 PM
I agree...I would rather be named Cobra. (nt)  ·  LMS  ·  8/3/2007, 12:14 PM
Re: A Precious Diamond?  ·  Cleveland Kent Evans  ·  8/2/2007, 4:26 PM
I'd use  ·  Sabrina Fair  ·  8/2/2007, 1:47 PM