I was able to locate a professor at a Valdosta State University who speaks Gaelic fluently and has studied the orgin of Gaelic words for over 10 years. According to her and her academic contacts and sources, the meaning of the name is no mystery at all. It means Mysterious and Sorrowful. I also cross-checked the name in a number of origin books on the subject and found them to be correct.
-- Anonymous User 12/6/2004
Deirdre is also known as 'Deirdre Of The Sorrows'.
It always makes me think of Andrew's girlfriend from 'I Hate Hamlet' (a book).
-- Anonymous User 12/3/2006
I've NEVER heard it to be pronounced "DEER-dree" (makes me think of one of a Christmas elf or stereotypical dwarf), always "DER-dre" (which I personally prefer) or "DEER-dre". I also have always thought the name itself to mean "sorrows", or "lady of sorrows." Regardless, it's one of my favorite names, and a beautiful sounding one as well (as long as it isn't "DEER-dree").
The original pronunciation would be closer to "DER-dra", which I prefer; "DEER-dree", "DEED-ra", and "DEER-dra" throws it away.
Seeing that on slender vowels ("e" and "i"), the "d" takes on the sound of the English "j" (in Scots Gaelic and in some Irish dialects), it could even be pronouned "JER-jra" or thereabouts.
To start with, the name Deirdre can be pronounced in different ways, it can be DEER-dra or De-a-dra or how ever you pronounce it, it all depends on the person who has the name, and also Deirdre means "sorrowful" not anything else.
-- Anonymous User 5/23/2007
It most likely does NOT mean sorrowful. This meaning is a conotation attached to it by the story. The name is very, very old and the origin is really quite unknown.
-- Anonymous User 7/9/2007
Really sorry to all people who have this name but I don't like it, I'm not sure why.
I don't like the spelling or pronunciation of this name at all. I like the name Deidra better. It's easier to pronounce and sounds more feminine to me.
I've only heard it pronounced DEER-dree. For some reason I have always a fondness for this name. I just really really like it.
-- Anonymous User 10/1/2007
Deer-dree in my experience is the anglicised pronunciation. It is most definitely not meant to be pronounced Deer-dree and nothing annoys me more. Deer-dra is how I usually hear it pronounced.
If you were writing a children's story and had to use this name, tell me you would use it for the main character and not the snotty rich girl. That's just my opinion though, and the pronunciation DER-DRE makes it even worse. I much prefer DEER-DRE.
-- Anonymous User 11/18/2007
Deirdre means "she who causes sorrow and pain" in Gaelic.
-- Anonymous User 11/20/2007
My father, who was born and raised in Tipperary, pronounces it Deerdree but he is very much in the minority in Ireland. That's actually one of the reasons why I'm not called it (at least, according to my mother)
The name is plain ugly, no matter how you pronounce it. As someone who loves the name Phaedra, I probably shouldn't call the name flat out pretentious, but I can't figure out what else could lead to people using this name than some sort of pretentiousness.
Yuck. When I was little, I never knew how to pronounce this name, so I asked my mother, and she said she didn't know either. She said, "Maybe derriere?" And you have to admit, it does look fighteningly similar.
This has to be the worst girl's name out there. First of all, the meaning, "to cause sorrow and pain" is horrible. How would you like your name to mean that? Secondly, it's bland, boring, and sounds absolutely terrible when pronounced.
-- Anonymous User 9/4/2008
I know a wonderful woman with this name. (By the way, she pronounces it DEER-dra.) It's a pretty, classic name.
-- Anonymous User 2/10/2009
Deirdre Mayfair is an important character (not main, just important) character in 'The Witching Hour' by Anne Rice.
My name's Deirdre, and I'm half-Irish living in Ireland for most of my life. It is speculated that the name means "sorrow", but only because it's associated with the Legend. No one actually knows the true meaning of it. I love my name because it is a pure Celtic name. Although most people misspell it. :)
My name is Deirdre. It is a beautiful and unique name. I would pronounce it DE-AIR-DRA or DEAR-DRA. My mom first heard the name by the actor ERROL FLYNN who named his daughter, Deirdre. I have heard that in addition to it meaning sorrow. I heard that it also means "raging". What ever the meaning the women who first bore the name was stunning and beautiful. I would hate to have been named after someone who was ugly inside or out!
Most folks of Irish descent around here (New England, USA) prounounce it Dare-dra. People usually tell me they love the name - I do if it is pronounced correctly :-). Family in Ireland pronounce it Deerdree, but I prefer Dare-dra. Some people tell me it is French or German! The common nickname for Deirdre is Didi or Deedee, but I left that behind long ago. Enjoy your name however you want to pronounce it!
I was nearly named this by my parents, and am mostly glad I wasn't. It has that rough, old-lady sound to it, but then again it sounds kind of spunky. I'd definitely prefer it over their final choice.