Wilma was a regular in the American top 1,000 from the 1880s to the 1960s with its peak in 1920 (68th position), but nowadays conjures up old ladies (not to mention one of the Flintstones characters). It is not the case in Sweden, however, as there it is one of the top 10 girls' names and the pronunciation of the initial letter there is in this case like a 'v'.
I still love this name despite its association with the Flintstones and old ladies. My great-grandmother actually had her name legally changed from Sarah to Wilma in the 20's because she believed Sarah was extremely old-fashioned. Odd how times change.
-- Anonymous User 3/1/2008
It's so funny how in English-speaking countries, this name sounds like the name of great-grandmothers or ugly, old, obese women, but in Finland, this name sounds youthful and is very common on elementary school girls! I imagine the name is pretty dated in German usage as well, but at least here in Finland, the name will much more likely make people think of a cute little girl than a grown woman, let alone an old, ugly one.
I go to boarding school with a Wilma and as such will never be able to see it as an "old lady's name". Nicknames include Wilms for everyday and Wilhemina for fun.
-- Anonymous User 2/13/2009
To me, this is a bit of an ugly name. I think Billie would be a good nickname, though.