I live in New
York City, but I've been all over New England as well as the whole East Coast. I think
Dante on a girl would raise a few eyebrows from time to time, but not for too long.
There are tons of kids walking around here with names way stranger than that.
As for the more suburban areas of New England/ Mid-Atlantic region, I'd say that traditional girls names are probably the way to go. Saying that, I do know girls from those areas named things like
Logan,
Kendall and
Jordan, which were all male names at one time.