They're all pretty but none are quite my style -
Jade for some reason feels too "cool",
Jessica is dated, and
Jasmine is too common. I think without those associations, I would choose
Jessica. With them,
Jade, as a MN. (
Jade as a boy's MN is a big GP for me, too.)
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"That cynicism you refer to I acquired the day I discovered I was different from little boys."