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[Opinions] Elinor, Genevieve and Grace
These are all names are on our list. I'm not sure how to feel - they seem so very 'in' and 'trendy' compared to Miriam. Thoughts? Grace is topping the list, as it has a lot of meaning for both me and my husband.
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I think the best is Elinor
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I haven't been around much. Are you pregnant or is this hypothetical?I like Grace best of those three. And I don't think it's too popular to consider. BUt I don't think any of those three are too popular to consider.If I was naming a sister to Miriam, she would be Naomi. :)
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Very hypothetical. And I'd name my daughter Naomi, too. But husband says no.
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Love GraceElinor is a really nice name (though I personally prefer the spelling Eleanor)Never really liked Genevieve, too pretentious for me
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Miriam might not be as 'in' as your other names, but that doesn't mean that they don't go together for siblings. All four of these names have a history of being names. That's enough for me to consider them for siblings.
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I don't dislike Elinor, but I feel like it's lackluster in comparison to Genevieve (the English pronunciation has always reminded me of "joie de vivre", so it sounds lively and bright to me)...and normally I'd say the same thing about Grace, but I think the combo you came up with is very balanced. I might actually prefer Grace Judith Cecilia over Genevieve Cecilia...I also like the idea of Cecilia as a FN, maybe with nn Cecile?

This message was edited 4/3/2016, 2:29 AM

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Maybe.The nickname thing is a bit of an issue. My in-laws do not use nicknames and in fact are pretty against them. Rose is occasionally Rosie, Caleb is occasionally Dub...but that's it. I'm pretty much the only one who uses nicknames. I'd have to put up with a lot of eyerolling and snide comments if I decided to use a nickname.
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They'll get used to it. The kid is your kid too. My family is a HUGE nickname family, which is why I consider nicknames for every name I ever think about because I'd like to preempt the choosing of one. Additionally, I am a product of my family and I shorten names myself! That being said, one of my Aunts who married into the family hates nicknames- her kids are always Benjamin, Nathanael and Josiah. We don't roll our eyes. Initially we were like "Benjamin is a long name to use all the time!" And we all do call him Ben on occasion but we actually do use their full names way more often because that's how their mother always referred to them. She doesn't get annoyed when we do shorten their names either though, she just never does it. She also calls all of us by our full names all the time, and none of us go by our full names ever in family situations.
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I can see Miriam and Elinor as siblings, and maybe Miriam and Grace although Grace stands out as a more popular and mainstream choice. I can't picture Miriam and Genevieve at all, Genevieve is way too frilly.
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These are all lovely! I wouldn't consider them in or trendy at all, except for Grace. I like Genevieve the best, with Elinor a very close second. Grace is a nice name, but for some reason it has a harsh sound to me. I don't know why, because I've known lots of nice Graces. I really like Gracie though.
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I love Elinor, and I think it complements Miriam beautifully!I find Grace overused and lackluster. I like Genevieve, but it's become somewhat tawdry to me.
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Genevieve and Grace are both beautiful names, and I love them with a sister named Miriam. Grace Judith Cecilia is a great combo. I love Eleanor but don't like Elinor at all. It looks odd and dumbed-down to me, like Eleanor was too hard for the user to spell (not that I think that's why you like it, that's just the vibe it gives off IMO).
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I love the spelling of Elinor because it has a medieval vibe to me. It has a cleaner, prettier look as well. I'm glad you like Grace Judith Cecilia. It would be solve the problem of having my daughter share a first name with an unlikable family member
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Hmm, I'll have to ponder Elinor and medieval-ness. Maybe you'll convert me.Grace Judith Cecilia is a lovely combination of light (Grace) and grounded (Judith). Cecilia's a bit of both so it works perfectly. :D
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Perhaps.I do worry about the spelling - she'd have to spend her life correcting people. I'm not sure why but I just don't like the spelling Eleanor.
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I think Grace is too popular. My favorite is Genevieve.
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Genevieve is getting more popular, though.Grace just has a lot of meaning to my husband and me, enough to override the popularity issue.

This message was edited 4/2/2016, 6:44 PM

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I like Elinor, and I think it goes fine with Miriam. I don't like Genevieve, because it sounds bitchy. Grace is okay. Miriam and Grace sound like sisters.What would be Grace's middle name?
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My husband has a relative whose daughter is named Grace Nour.
They are Middle Eastern, though Canadian citizens, been here (the parents) for about 10 years.
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We're trying to figure it out, as Grace Cecilia sounds like Gray Cecilia. I think I might do a double middle name again - Grace Judith Cecilia. That feels 'right' I've actually started to think of using Cecilia as a first name. The more I learn about my husband's aunt/godmother the more I like the name. Cecilia Grace is really pretty to me. I'd just need to find a nickname I like.
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I had a good friend name Cecilia who went by Ceci (pronounced "see-see"). Celia would work too. Grace Judith Cecilia is very nice too.
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I really, really like Ceci.A lot. :-D I'll run it by Alexander.
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Grace Judith Cecilia is divine. Judith really grounds the other two names.
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