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Re: Middle Names
So are all three honoring, and you're trying to decide which sounds best? If they are all honoring, does the person whom you're honoring play a factor at all?I think Alexander Philip sounds best, even though I'm not a huge fan of Philip as a first name, and I don't think it's too Alexander the Great.
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Yes, Philip is my (maternal) grandfather and Idris is a family name on his side that he's expressed the wish of someone using, and Garth is my father. Initially I wanted to avoid Philip because our daughter is named after my maternal grandmother and we wanted to pick a different family branch. My mom really wants me to use Garth after my dad. I would say honoring-wise I ought to go for my dad over my grandpa, but actually liking the name trumps that for us!
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I like diversifying the honoring too. I'd go with Alexander Idris. Your mom is not part of the naming process for your kids and if neither of you like Garth, don't even consider it.FWIW, I don't think Alexander Philip is too Alexander the Great either.

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Agreed, on all counts.
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Does your dad have any middle names you could use?
Or would it perhaps be appropriate to have a conversation with your dad where he actually picks a name? Or maybe you give him a list of names you and your other half are agreed on let your dad pick from there? Still a way of honouring, I think, and definitely a cute story to tell your son.
Garth has meaning linked with garden, perhaps you could go with botanical or nature name?
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I do love the meaning of Garth, too. His middle name is Frederick, which is his dad's name, but we dislike that even more. :/ It would be nice if all of your family members had names you liked or at least were neutral on, wouldn't it? :)
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Oh yes! That would make naming life much easier!Maybe a diminutive of Frederick - or is that too much of a stretch for honouring purposes? I'm thinking, Freddie, Ricky, Rico, Fritz etc?
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I did suggest Fritz! We both have a lot of German ancestry in our families, especially DH's. He didn't seem keen on the idea, though. Of course. Because he's never keen on anything! D:
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Alexander Garden... dreamy...
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