Its a tough dilemma choosing to use a nn or give the child the formal version to give them options. However, I think that people have to do what they want because if you name her
Emma but call her
Emmie their will always be one annoying person who insist her name is
Emma & will call her that. So unless you're okay with that I'd definitely go with the nn.
For us that dilemma involves
Maggie!
Love it, but
Margaret makes me cringe yet while I'm okay with
Maggie just being a
Maggie this does hold me back about the name. Furthermore, some people really are over the top about it such as is the case with legitimate first names
Lily &
Liv. No, you don't need a
Lillian or an
Olivia thank you very much especially if she's always going to be a
Lily! Seems very pretentious to me. BUT, I do like
Olivia even though I prefer just
Liv and so if we were to use the name we'd go with
Olivia to give the child more options (besides
Liv is not an accepted first name in Canada, as many do not know of its Scandavian origin).
Ultimately, its all about balance. All things being equal options & formal names are better IMHO. Since
Emma,
Emily,
Emilia, and
Emmaline are no gos what about
Emmanuelle?
Emerson? As for the original question
Emmie Katherine or something along those lines gets my vote. It definitley should be paired with a long classical name to give the combination balance. Is the
Emmie spelling set in stone? What about
Emmy or Emme? I prefer
Emmy.
Jacks, Future Mama to Attached Babies
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