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A girl named Tristin?!
I saw a little girl named Tristin yesterday! It made me kind of sad. I love this as a boy's name, but I'm not sure if I could use it if it's being used on girls. WDYT? :-/
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I actually like Tristan / Trystan on a girl. But then, it is near unheard of as a male name here. Equally, I like some names on boys that are more common on girls.
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I know a girl named Tristin. But I dont really like it. I def. prefer it for a boy.
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I don't like it for a boy, but at least it's legitimate. I don't like it for a girl at all.
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same here
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I agree, it's icky. Spelled like that, it even looks like a cutesy substitution of a T for the K in Kristin. Besides, any form of Tristan will probably never look right on a woman to me. It's masculine. - chazda
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I hate unisex names. I knew a girl named Trista before.
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No!We already have Trista (and The Bachlorette connection is already distinctly fading imo), and we also have the possibilities of Tristina, Tristana, Tristiana, Tristine, etc.Tristan and its variants have been male names since they were created. To me, they should most definitely be left as male names.Miranda
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I love it on a girl! I would NEVER use it on a boy b/c it just...sounds feminine to me.
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I know a girl named Tristan...so it doesn't really bother me. But it doesn't sound very feminine in my opinion.
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The first time i heard the name, i thought it was a girls name, so i can understand why they would use it on a girl, but if it became unisex, like so many other names have, it wouldn't keep me from using it on a boy if i liked it. Heck, If i loved the name Sarah on a boy, i would name my son Sarah. But thats just me.
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I'm one of those people who REALLY REALLY likes to keep the boys names on the boys, but this name is sad in itself so I'd never consider it anyway.-Seda*
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But Tristan doesn't mean "sad"Tristan:
From the Celtic name Drystan, which was probably derived from
drest meaning "riot" or "tumult". It is sometimes associated with Latin tristus "sad", but this connection is doubtful.Miranda
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You could say it has the partial meaning "sad"... Most in-depth information on Tristan acknowedges that Drystan's change to Tristan was directly influenced by French "triste", because of the character's tragic fate.Just as you could say the name Rose only has the partial meaning "rose", Tristan probably does partially mean "sad", if that was the intention behind its form.
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I still always think of sad and so do most people...*Aphrodite* (aka Hattie)
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Nope, in fact, this is from babynames.com...TRISTAN

Gender: Male
Meaning: Bold, melancholy.
Origin: Celtic/Gaelic
User Rating:
5=LOVE IT
1=HATE IT 3.4

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Babynames.com can't be trustedIt's one of the crappiest, most inaccurate places to get name meanings. They don't care about accuracy, since they cater to ignorant parents who just want to find a name for their KEWT BAYBEE!1!, and don't care about etymology.In short, never trust Babynames.com, or any of its many clones. It'll probably be wrong. And certainly don't call them "factual".Miranda
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Really? I'm sorry...
Where would you suggest going online besides here?
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Several placesNote that you should try and double-check in several places--basically do your own research--if you want to be 100% sure of something regarding a name.That said, here are some good sites that I have bookmarked:
http://tools.oxygen.com/babynamer/ - Oxygen's Babynamer. Fairly accurate, but does have some errors. Also has quite a few kre8iv spellings, some very cringe-worthy (Qeleigh for Kelly, for one). Has interesting categories and namesakes, and a relatively good search. You used to be able to contribute opinions on names, but they've apparently removed that feature
http://www.geocities.com/edgarbook/names/welcome.html - Edgar's Name Pages. A less professional, but still fairly accurate site. Gives top 50 popularities for England going all the way back to the Middle Ages, and lots of other goodies. Is due for an update soon
http://www.gaminggeeks.org/Resources/KateMonk/ - Kate Monk's site. I regret I keep not checking it out fully due to various distractions, but everyone here praises it for accuracy, and being backed up by sources. Includes, among other things, medieval names for both sexes, as well as Puritan names
http://www.s-gabriel.org/names/talan/reaney/ - Feminine Given Names in A Dictionary of English Surnames. In other words, lots of female names that were used in the Middle Ages in England, separated into eras. Not etymology-oriented--although it does have some--but is rather focused on what names parents were naming their daughters
http://homepages.rootsweb.com/~oel/givennames.html - Given names used from 1450 to 1650 in England. Quite similar to the above site, but includes male names too

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NMS!I don't like using boys names for girls. I've met a little girl named Elliot the other day and thought the same thing.
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If you like it as a boy's name (which is the only way that I like it), I think you'll be fine. In the spelling mentioned, it has only registered in the boy's charts. In the more common spelling Tristan, even though it has been in the girl's charts a few times, has always been much more popular on boys, and last year was only in the boy's charts.

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I don't care for it for a boy (or Tristan, etc.), but I really don't like it for a girl.
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I used to like this on a boy till I found out that it meant sad or something. I think it could work on a girl.- Kitty
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