I would have argued and kept arguing until I had the last word.
To me,
Stephen is pronounced with a V sound. In the course of my work, I take names and I have to be certain that I spell them correctly. Many times I have asked a man who has told me that his name is STEE-ven (note the V), "Do you spell that S-T-E-V-E-N?", and am answered, "No, S-T-E-P-H-E-N." I'd say it's about forty percent of the time that I hear STEE-ven. And they've all been American. I actually have been surprised because I thought the
Steven spelling was a lot more common in the US than that.
To me, STEF-en is
Stefan.
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