Why are you always so combative? There was some obvious confusion brought on by your specific reference to her maiden name.
"So you're saying it's totally cool if people just call you by your maiden name after you're married?"
You don't see how that could lead someone to believe that you prefer use of the married name?
Maybe she married a prince because she loves him and maybe she actually PREFERS to not be referred to by a royal title. I don't know. But it sure does seem like ya do care about it.
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my names list:
http://www.behindthename.com/pnl/111261
**currently my keyboard.... sucks. So please forgive my likely spelling errors**