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[Opinions] Cato
So I FINALLY found a name that sparked joy for both me and my husband. I tend to like more romantic/nature/classic names like Eleanor/Annora/Astrid or Vincent/Florian/Reid/Jasper.I'd like to hear suggestions for middle names. Last name is similar to Hornik/Hendrik/HavenikSo far I've come up with: GIRLS:
Cato Adelaide
Cato Annora
Cato Aster
Cato Azalea
Cato Blair
Cato Bryony
Cato Briar
Cato Dahlia
Cato Eloise
Cato Elowen
Cato Evanthe
Cato Genevie
Cato Guinevere
Cato Jasper
Cato Lavender
Cato Linden
Cato Linnea
Cato Maeve
Cato Marigold
Cato Nerissa
Cato Octavia
Cato Rhoswen
Cato Rosalind
Cato Vivian
Cato Wren
Cato Xanthe
Cato ZinniaBoy:
Cato Abram
Cato Alexei
Cato Alexander
Cato Blair
Cato Evander
Cato Florence
Cato Florian
Cato Forest
Cato Gabriel
Cato Glacier
Cato Jasper
Cato Lillian
Cato Linden
Cato Reid
Cato Rosaire
Cato Rosen
Cato Vance
Cato Victor
Cato Vivian
Cato Zacharias
Cato Zephyr
Cato Zion
**EDIT: I know it feels really good being better than everyone but I didn't ask for anyone's opinion/disapproval of the name itself. I asked for middle name combos. If the name is so beneath you that you can't suggest a combo, this thread ain't for you ;)

This message was edited 11/19/2021, 3:26 PM

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Cato is a definitely male name, not a girl. I like Cato Reid, Cato Zephyr, Cato Ianus and Cato Silvanus.
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Cool story bro. Look more into female Dutch names. I appreciate the suggestions
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I absolutely adore Cato Gentian! (Especially as a biology/medicine nerd)Thanks for the suggestions!
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I like Cato more on boys than I do on girls, but I can see it potentially working for either. I would check to make sure that their isn't a Cato store outlet in your area. It would work best in areas where the lady's clothing store doesn't exist. My favorites of the combos that you listed are...
Cato Adelaide
Cato Annora
Cato Elowen
Cato Evanthe
Cato Linnea
Cato Octavia
Cato Rhoswen
Cato VivianCato Abram
Cato Alexander
Cato Evander
Cato Forest
Cato Gabriel
Cato Linden
Cato Victor
Cato ZephyrOther suggestions:
Cato Raphael
Cato Melchior
Cato Jude
Cato Theodore
Cato Lionel
Cato Miles
Cato ArthurCato Violet
Cato Francesca
Cato Leonie
Cato Adeline
Cato Leandra
Cato Bernadette
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Oh yes and thankfully no worries about the stores in Canada.Although, I'd still use strong association names if i liked the name enough. Ie- Allegra (lovely name- would use if hubs wasn't limited to short ambiguous names)
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I really love Cato Leonie!Thanks for the great suggestions and respectful views.
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I love Cato for a girl, for boy it's okay too, but I pronounce them differently per sex. The girls' Cato has the stress on the second syllable for me.I like it paired with Dahlia, Guinevere, Lavender or Rosalind. I'd not use Jasper as a mn for a girl with a unisex first name. For boys I like Jasper, Reid, Victor, Zacharias and Zephyr.
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I think you're right! I think they're supposed to be pronounced differently with the different origins.I understand it's not popular opinion to use traditionally gender names on opposite gender.Jasper rings unisex nature name to me and I've known female Jaspers... especially in the context of being Canadian (Jasper National Park) Thanks for your respectful thoughts and suggestions.
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Cato is not a unisex name ...And never was. It's a classical Roman male name, and hardly ever used even for a male, and never used for a female.
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Love the energy. So confident. So wrong.Never said it was unisex.
Never asked about any of this.
Humility is a virtue.
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It IS most definitely a female nameIf you just look up Cato here you will find it.The Dutch institution of names lists it being used as far back as they started keeping track (1880). I'd say a name that has been used frequently for women for well over 140 years is a female name. The only way you are right is that the classical Roman Cato isn't used for girls and the Catharina diminutive Cato isn't used for boys, and thus, arguably, it isn't unisex in the strictest definition.
Source
https://www.meertens.knaw.nl/nvb/naam/is/Cato
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I have seen, in some older novel or other, Cato used as a nickname for Catherine (a la Caro for Caroline), so although it's extremely rare, I don't think it's completely unknown.
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There was a girl named Katie in elementary school; a couple of her friends called her Kato/Kayto for fun, but to me that's not even really a nn the way Kate/Katie/Kitty would be. It's more like on the level of back in the early nineties when people got called Stevo and Jenny-o. (Come to think of it, Kayto called one girl, Amy, Aymo.)
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BTN says it’s a diminutive of Catharina. It’s #53 for girls in the Dutch charts.
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Cato is definitely a masculine name, a nice masculine name, but I would advice against it on a girl it seems awkward on a female. (Biological FtM or non binary persons not included) For a boy it's very handsome. It's been hovering in the background of my name nerd consciousness since reading the Hunger Games for the first time 10 years ago. Of the boy names listed I like: Cato Victor- very handsome and Gallant I love it!
Cato Vance- ditto
Cato Reid
Cato Florian
Cato Alexander- a masterpiece of a name my favorite here I think! This would be my recommendation
Cato Jasper
Cato Zephyr Feel free to look at my Male MN ideas list in my PNLs if you want more ideas I try to "collect" them. I would steer clear of Cato Lillian on a boy... was that a typo? no way would he appreciate that, also Cato Florence, Blair, or Cato Vivian, they may Technically be unisex but let's not kid ourselves they've too firmly established themselves in the girl camp at this point.

This message was edited 11/17/2021, 5:16 AM

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Looking at just your suggestions, I appreciate your take on Cato Victor, Cato Vance and Cato Alexander. I appreciate it I also agree, it does ring right with Alexander!
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"[...]... was that a typo? no way would he appreciate that, also Cato Florence, Blair, or Cato Vivian, they may Technically be unisex but let's not kid ourselves they've too firmly established themselves in the girl camp at this point"LOL! Maybe in your world.I do appreciate the suggestions you provided though, thank you!Edit: clarification of what triggered me xD

This message was edited 11/19/2021, 3:45 PM

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I love Cato Daphne
And Cato RainerThanks for your awesome suggestions and your respectful view
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Cato is a cool name, but it's only masculine to me. Cato for a girl doesn't do it for me. Maybe Kata? I like the sound of Cato Alexander. I'm not a big fan of Abram and especially not with that spelling, but it sounds good with Cato as well.
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I think you're right about Cato Alexander. Sounds pretty cool
Thanks for the suggestion and your respectful view!
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