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[Opinions] Tristan
I have to say, knowing all the Tristan's that I have known (which aren't many), was shocked to see some posts where it was used as a boys name. Then I looked it up, and it states it is traditionally a masculine name. That floored me.So I guess my question is, and where your opinion is needed... is Tristan so bad as a girl's name? It's just one of those names that sounds so feminine to me (possibly because it rhymes with Kristen). It's like using Ashley, Leslie, Courtney (etc) as a boy's name... it makes no sense to me as it sounds soft... but I know many of you would use these on a male child in an instant.So at what point do you think it is perfectly appropriate to use a traditionally masculine name... even though it has a tendency to sound feminine? Did that make any sense at all?
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Tristan  ·  Christa S.  ·  4/29/2008, 10:17 PM
All the Tristans I know are male.(m)  ·  KDen20  ·  4/29/2008, 10:46 PM
me too. m  ·  penguiny7  ·  4/30/2008, 5:44 AM
Re: I conour nt.  ·  Emma Jenny  ·  4/30/2008, 1:44 PM
Re: Tristan  ·  Melissa  ·  4/29/2008, 11:02 PM
Tristana  ·  Christa S.  ·  4/29/2008, 11:08 PM
I'm in Illinois. nt  ·  KDen20  ·  4/29/2008, 11:14 PM
Re: Tristana  ·  Melissa  ·  4/29/2008, 11:20 PM
I'm from Western Canada  ·  Schezar  ·  4/29/2008, 11:34 PM
Ohio.  ·  Aileen  ·  4/30/2008, 3:40 AM
I'm from Oregon, and I know only a male Tristan. n/t  ·  Ariel  ·  4/30/2008, 3:46 PM
Re: Tristan  ·  Schezar  ·  4/29/2008, 11:07 PM
Re: Tristan  ·  Christa S.  ·  4/29/2008, 11:10 PM
Re: Tristan  ·  Schezar  ·  4/29/2008, 11:27 PM
I'm this way about August nt  ·  Tippins  ·  4/30/2008, 4:24 PM
ditto nt  ·  Sabrina Fair  ·  4/29/2008, 11:41 PM
Re: Tristan  ·  Chrisell  ·  4/30/2008, 12:33 AM
Tristanne is pretty.(m)  ·  Tassiegirl  ·  4/30/2008, 5:29 AM
Re: Tristan  ·  Lethe  ·  4/30/2008, 2:11 AM
This is one of the ones that gets me (m)  ·  Atheling  ·  4/30/2008, 3:32 AM
Totally ditto  ·  Aileen  ·  4/30/2008, 3:39 AM
Alexis  ·  CN  ·  4/30/2008, 3:41 AM
PLEASE KEEP IN MIND...  ·  Christa S.  ·  4/30/2008, 7:44 AM
And by-the-way...  ·  Christa S.  ·  4/30/2008, 7:49 AM
It's a movie too. (m)  ·  KDen20  ·  4/30/2008, 11:16 AM
No problem (m)  ·  Atheling  ·  4/30/2008, 1:10 PM
Re: No problem (m)  ·  Christa S.  ·  4/30/2008, 1:26 PM
Totally agree (m)  ·  Joan-Ay  ·  4/30/2008, 9:20 AM
Re: Tristan  ·  Elena  ·  4/30/2008, 4:46 AM
Re: Tristan  ·  Tippins  ·  4/30/2008, 4:57 AM
Re: Tristan  ·  Poppylena  ·  4/30/2008, 5:13 AM
Re: Tristan  ·  Flute  ·  4/30/2008, 6:07 AM
Re: Tristan  ·  PB  ·  4/30/2008, 7:32 AM
You're welcome ;). (nt)  ·  Chriss  ·  4/30/2008, 9:43 AM
Re: Tristan  ·  Murasaki  ·  4/30/2008, 9:49 AM
Re: Tristan  ·  Kate  ·  4/30/2008, 10:07 AM
Re: Tristan  ·  Daddysdancer  ·  4/30/2008, 7:23 PM